Once upon a time... There was a man (part man, larger part boy) called Og. He lived what he considered a vaguely interesting life and often considered he'd appreciate keeping a log, an Oglog if you will of the events that transpired to him and around him.
He promised himself that each day he would try to post at least three paragraphs of happenings including a low and high point of the day, a question and a rating score out of 10 for the day overall and see how things went over time then probably look back at 50 and wish he had at some point at least gone skydiving.
Today, I decided to start a blog, this was fueled generally by three key factors, continuing 'spiritual' conversations with a large variety of strangers who seem to be adding more pieces to the puzzle at random and increasing numbers, an increasing amount of synchronicity again (could also be called coincidences) and finally a seemingly desolate and barren yet choice filled love life (or lack thereof). In short, life seems to be interesting right now and if it becomes very un-interesting I can look back and see that at least for a short spell of intrigue happened to reminisce about.
Day Rating : 8/10
Low point : Hearing people in the office talking about me, not necessarily in a bad way, just saying something just out of earshot.
High point : Feeling like truely helped someone to start walking their path again.
Question for today : Should you go for someone your personality 'clicks' with even if you didn't find them that attractive at first or should you wait for the attractiveness with the 'click' also?
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I like your idea. Stick to it, it's easy to give up quickly but it's nice to look back after doing something for a year or so!
ReplyDeleteAnd as for your question.. that is a good one. I think sometimes the attraction can grow with your relationship so I'd say listen to your gut. Cliches aside, I think finding someone with a personality that clicks is the most important thing. Attraction is nice too though.
I will try, I think it would benefit from pictures like yours :)
ReplyDeleteWhat if your gut says 'this girl is so attractive we can't talk to her cause we're scared shitless' and you can't find out if it clicks?
I don't know what to say about that one.. except that attractive people are just people. They have personalities--some good, some bad-- just like everyone else. The only way to find out is to talk to someone. Can't judge a book by its cover, no matter how hot the cover may be. I think the initial fear of talking to someone goes away after the first thirty seconds of talking to them. If it's too awkward, then they probably aren't who you're looking for and vice versa.
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